2022.01.28 16:52 incrediblemachinen Please help me avoid divorce talks over money
Thank you for reading. I'm 40m she's 35f and we've been married 6 years, have a 3yo child.
We live in an affluent neighborhood, house paid off, cars paid off, multiple rental properties, and I'm making EXCELLENT money at my corporate job. My wife doesn't see a "need" to work and it's killing me. I get that I can support her, my child, AND now even her parents and my parents as well, and still live comfortably. She's a great woman, but I can't shake the feeling that she's coasting and "living off me" ... have I fallen out of love? are my feelings normal? how do you have this conversation?
When I try to get her motivated to study or find something to work on etc. she just brushes it off as it being a total waste of time because her income won't move the needle one way or the other (that is unless she really applies herself I tell her) but it often comes down to her feeling like I'm saying she's not good enough and we wind up fighting - totally non productive.
Any advice would help.
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2022.01.28 16:52 Rock_Facts Quitting and then getting hired again
2022.01.28 16:52 brokemillennialdude My gf (28) encouraged me to contact her ex-gf (30).. and now I’m (27) irritated..
I’m trying so hard to be a partner who doesn’t get upset or annoyed by exes being in contact with each other. My gf and I have been together for a few years now.. she broke up with her ex 2 years ago, and they’ve never stopped talking or being friends even though they’re completely over their history.
When our relationship was new, it took me a while to get comfortable with their friendship because I knew my gf’s ex still had feelings. It was very obvious. I didn’t like what was happening, so I spoke up about. Luckily my gf had a talk with their ex, so I guess that settled things.
Fast forward a couple years later, and I’m feeling great about my relationship and where my gf stands with her ex. I’m currently making a career change and feeling very overwhelmed.. So, my gf tells me I should reach out to her ex, because her ex experienced something similar and was able to find success.
I was really apprehensive about this. There are other people I could definitely talk to, but it seemed like it meant a lot to my gf that I reach out to her ex. As if it were a sign of growth and maturity for all of us. It took a lottt of positive self-talk and practical thinking to get myself on board with this… so I said fine. You can tell your ex I’d like to talk with her about career stuff.
So the next morning, my gf hits her ex up, and her ex responds within minutes. It was so fast. Her ex said she was happy to offer me career advice and that can speak with me whenever. So I got her ex’s number, and texted her about 6 hours later once I got off work.
Deep down, I didn’t want to talk to her ex because being vulnerable about my career is really hard for me. Let alone being vulnerable to my gf’s ex… but still, I reached out.. and I didn’t feel so bad after all. But after an hour went by, I started wondering if she would ever text back. Then 3 hours.. then a whole day. Then 2 days. A week later.. no response or follow up. I was wondering if it was my fault for texting my gf’s ex hours later instead of texting her right after my gf did. I was thinking I could follow up, but reaching out was already hard enough, so I decided that I don’t need to double text.
I told my gf about it, and she claims that my text came off a little too ambitious because I didn’t provide a flexible timeframe for us to talk. Instead of saying “hey can we set up a time to talk within a week.” I said “hey can we set up a time to talk tomorrow.” As if it was too short of notice..
I responded by saying, even if I did give her short notice, she could’ve texted me back saying “that doesn’t work for me, let’s pick another day.” But not texting back at all, when she seemed soo eager to talk to me (when texting my gf) rubbed me the wrong way. My gf said, “well people get busy but I’m sure she’ll text you back.”
It’s been almost 3 weeks now. I don’t want to let my gf’s ex live in my head like this. Like I’m mad that my gf isn’t as mad as me that her ex blew me off. Especially cause they still talk to each other on a casual bases. I’m mad that I even gave her ex a chance to give me career advice. I’m mad that I naive enough to think this was a good idea. I haven’t told my gf this because I don’t want to cause a big argument between us. Like her fucking ex isn’t even in the picture, and yet because of her, I could easily get into an argument with my gf.
I really didn’t want to reach out in the first place because I didn’t want to end up in a place where my gf has to defend her ex since that’s her friend. But I’m just feeling the feels rn. I hope my anger passes, and if it doesn’t, I hope I can talk about this with my gf without us getting into a big argument. Any helpful thoughts? Maybe I just need time to get over it.
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2022.01.28 16:52 TunaLurch Gotta say, I'm actually impressed
I heard that bitmart was supposedly going to implement v2 without me needing to do anything. That is how I feel it should have been done for everyone in the first place. Given the bad taste sfm has left in my mouth for a while now I wasn't expecting anything.
When I just checked my bitmart account the transition had completed. I also received back pay for missed reflections during the time my v1 sat there. I'm genuinely impressed by this move. It's the first time I've felt like safemoon did something positive for the holders.
Prior tweets kind of scoff at the idea that people may not know about v2. Or how to switch from v1 to v2. insinuating that if you didn't do the work and pay the fees yourself you could lose your investment. Regardless of the fact that about 75% of holders never converted.
This puts a positive spin on my outlook. They seem willing to take responsibility for their changes and put the effort in to make it work for holders. This type of courtesy is essential to success. They just need to get it right the first time from here on.
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2022.01.28 16:52 TheLampPostDealer Is there an actual reason why petscop 2 wont come out?
2022.01.28 16:52 RuffledFeathers411 It would be helpful to get an email after a known error is fixed.
2022.01.28 16:52 Daqlumpk The most forgotten part of American history. The Gilded age!
2022.01.28 16:52 _Not_Bree_ What.
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2022.01.28 16:52 cheryst What do you think,is kid innocent?
2022.01.28 16:52 Aggravating-West-575 Dynasty trade
2022.01.28 16:52 matterofprinciple To the keyboard warriors.
Fret and sob about COVID all you like; you think it's the perfect excuse to abuse children and disconnect yourself from reality. Reddit is not reality. Be careful with your echo chambers, they will only elicit poor habits of yours that you might eventually express IRL.
You wanna sob and cry about state policy? Move to California. See what your oh so progressive policies did there.
Do not presume to insert those same policies that made California a failed state into a functional community.
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2022.01.28 16:52 HerculanoM Resumo do outro sub, gente falando bem de Hitler kkkkkkkkkk
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2022.01.28 16:52 Primary_Ad_8381 [h] $120 Amazon gift card [w] crypto
Mom gave me $120 Amazon gift card she got from work but I don’t need anything from Amazon, I’ve been wanting to build a crypto portfolio though I’ll do 95$ for it.
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2022.01.28 16:52 FrontpageWatch2020 [#21|+14557|3737] A kind, but forceful, message to all the right wingers who are looking for a home in this sub: [r/WorkReform]
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2022.01.28 16:52 sillyschainsaw WHY
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2022.01.28 16:52 Affectionate-Day3258 Anyone else notice wheezy snuck his tag in here hella quiet ? 😂
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2022.01.28 16:52 crackbeans112 chill ~ 1 am vibes | sky town
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2022.01.28 16:52 JustAnotherJames3 [OC] Scarlet Spider (Ben Reilly) Redesign
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2022.01.28 16:52 Krstoserofil Is it possible to leave the headlights(engine) on, even when you dismount the bike?
You know in the sense, I basically leave the bike still running and giving me lights, while I walk around.
I think it would be really helpful to me in certain situations.
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2022.01.28 16:52 katespadesaturday Be careful guys srsly
2022.01.28 16:52 TheStruggleville Home Depot: Makita Buy More Save More! Up To $135 Off! (Expires 5/1/22)
2022.01.28 16:52 PNW4theWin Covid question - Is air travel worth the risk to see 85 YO ailing mom?
I (F 61) live in Portland, OR. My mom lives in Houston, Texas. I have one sibling - a brother (65) who lives near my mother. Mom is 85 and she's been through hell the last 7 months. My family all has high cholesterol. My mom has high blood pressure (diagnosed in early 20s) that is well maintained with meds. She has not treated her high cholesterol with statins.
In July, she had 5 coronary stents placed. (I flew to Texas and stayed for 10 days. She was in the hospital the whole time. ) I was worried about covid, but we were both fully vaxxed and we agreed to take the risk. I wore my mask through two airports and during an Uber ride. She didn't want me to wear the mask while in her hospital room, which I thought was risky, but my brother and his wife weren't wearing theirs, so I acquiesced. Mom went home and started her recovery knowing that her docs were concerned about blockage in her carotid artery and her legs.
A couple of months later, my mom had a carotid stent placed due to blockages. Her vocal cord was damaged and now she has only one functioning vocal cord.
Today, my mom is having a femoral bypass in one leg. She is receiving a donor artery from a cadaver. She was told she had 100% blockage in both legs, so she will have the same procedure on the other leg in three weeks. She may lose some or all toes. I'm assuming she will need immunosuppressive drugs so she doesn't reject the donated artery.
I am vaxxed and boosted with Moderna. My mom has had 2 doses of Pfizer, no booster.
I have decided not to go to Texas to support her for this procedure because I'm afraid I will contract omicron during travel. I'm not overly concerned about my own ability to survive because I'm vaxxed, but if I were to catch covid and pass it to her, she would certainly die from the disease.
My brother is there to care for her. If I were to travel, I would only be able to stay for a short time - 3 or 4 days. I provide childcare for my 3-year-old granddaughter, so I have her to think about, as well.
I guess I'm really looking for confirmation that I'm making the right choice here. Do the risks of traveling and possible exposure outweigh the benefits of a quick visit to hold her hand and offer moral support?
I do speak to her on the phone daily and I offer moral support as often as possible.
I think there are no good choices here. I would hate to have her survive these surgeries only to be exposed to covid from her daughter and then die of this shitty disease.
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2022.01.28 16:52 Berithh Tried my hand at recreating Artorias the Abysswalker. Obviously using Crown-Splitter as a heavy.
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